how to get your boyfriend to love you again

{\rtf1\ansi\ansicpg1252\cocoartf1187\cocoasubrtf340{\fonttbl\f0\fnil\fcharset0 gillsans;} {\colortbl;\red255\green255\blue255;\red67\green67\blue67;\red255\green255\blue255;}\margl1440\margr1440\vieww10800\viewh8400\viewkind0 \deftab720\pard\pardeftab720\sl600\sa300 \f0\fs34 \cf2 \cb3 how to make him want youmore? i get asked that constantly. women spend of a lot of time trying to figure out exactlywhat it is that will make their guy go gaga over their relationship, and more importantlythe girl herself. this leads to an abundance of speculation between women and their friends,which often times is based around the media, television shows and pop music. the truthis, ladies, there are five sure-fire ways to make him want you, and none of them haveanything to do with the cast of grey\'92s

anatomy.\\pard\pardeftab720\sl720\sa400 \b\fs40 \cf2 listen to him\\pard\pardeftab720\sl600\sa300 \b0\fs34 \cf2 men know that it is absolutelyin your nature to talk more than they do, and honestly we\'92re used to it. what wewould like in return, however, is for you to allow us the time to talk about anythingwe would like, without interjecting. if your guy begins a story about a conversation hehad with his mother, it is not acceptable to jump in and ask how she\'92s doing, orif she has talked to anyone else in the family lately about an upcoming event. you will haveyour chance to ask questions, add comments and regale us with your superior family dynamicsafter we are finished. this applies to work,

friends and general stories about anythingthat happened while we were not together.\ \pard\pardeftab720\sl720\sa400 \b\fs40 \cf2 show some respect\\pard\pardeftab720\sl600\sa300 \b0\fs34 \cf2 men would really appreciatehaving a girlfriend who does not torture him with the details of what she thinks aboutevery single friend, family member or coworker he has. sure, mike \'97 your beau\'92s bestfriend since third grade \'97 may be a complete idiot, but it is not necessary to remind himyou think so every time he says the poor guy\'92s name in passing. he wants you to be able tomeet him out for a beer, no matter who is at the bar, including mike, and for you tobe nice, fun and sweet. not to roll your eyes

at his friends, or try and adopt them as petprojects to make them better people. they are his friends, not yours. the same goesfor any interaction with the wait staff or parking attendants. everyone deserves yourrespect, and the more you give it, without being cynical, the more he will love you.\\pard\pardeftab720\sl720\sa400 \b\fs40 \cf2 be confident, not jealous\\pard\pardeftab720\sl600\sa300 \b0\fs34 \cf2 there is absolutely nothingsexier on the entire planet than a confident woman. when you are sitting up straight, smilingand exuding a self-assured determination, everyone in the room will have their eyeson you, and that drives all men crazy. if you spend the evening slouched in a chair,making ugly faces at the women who go by or

scolded him for talking to someone of theopposite sex, you begin to look desperate and awful. these are both exhausting traitsand will stand out like a red wine stain on a white dress. give him a reason to neverleave your side while you are out with friends, and show him that you are worth his undividedattention.\ \b\fs40 \cf2 mind your own business\\pard\pardeftab720\sl600\sa300 \b0\fs34 \cf2 chances are, your guy has gottento adulthood without your unwavering ability to monitor his every move. let\'92s keep itthat way. along with any sensible amount of confidence comes an ability to mind your ownbusiness. it is none of your concern who is texting, emailing or messaging him, so youdo not have to ask him every time his phone

makes a sound. chances are, he\'92s simplyresponding to a \'93get a beer?\'94 text from a friend, or responding to an after-hoursemail. in a world of technological crutches, we all have a social cross to bear when respondingto others as long as the device is turned on. if it is incredibly important for thetwo of you to have alone time, consider agreeing on a time to shut the phones off together,or going to dinner or a movie without them.\ \b\fs40 \cf2 how to make him want you again\\pard\pardeftab720\sl600\sa300 \b0\fs34 \cf2 this is so easy. the problemis, women spend an exorbitant amount of time keeping score with their girlfriends, andlisting all of the things their man does wrong, instead of actually saying or doing somethingnice for him instead. does your man like a

certain food? surprise him with a lunch deliveryto his office when you know he is too slammed to get out. even easier, say something niceor flattering to him. tell him he\'92s handsome, or that you admire his opinion or intelligencewhen he provides you with a solid solution. thank him for dinner immediately followinga meal when the two of you have gone out for an evening, and offer to buy coffee or a drinkafterwards. show him that you care by kissing him on the cheek, or telling him that youare happy/proud/excited for him when the occasion arises. it really is that easy.\relationships are a two way street. if you would like someone to treat you with respect,and say and do nice things for you, you should probably start returning the gestures.\}