what to say to someone who broke your heart

if you want to get back together with yourex, but he or she is now dating someone new, then this video is for you. in fact, i’mgoing to tell you how your ex’s new ‘lover’ could actually help you win them back in thelong run. i’m brad browning, by the way… i’m arelationship coach and author of the ex factor, a guide that teaches men and women how torebuild a broken relationship and rekindle things with an ex. so, i should first say that this video ismainly for those who broke up within the past year or so. the same things may apply if yourbreakup happened long ago, but that’s a topic i’ll cover in another video.

let’s start by talking about rebounds. in most cases, the new guy or girl your exis now dating is a “rebound”. a “rebound” relationship is essentially just what thename suggests: a ‘quick fix’ for your ex to get through the sadness and lonelinessthat they are experiencing in the wake of your breakup. keep in mind, by the way, that breaking upwith someone can actually be even more difficult and gut-wrenching than being broken up with.that means that even though your ex may have been the one to initiate the breakup, it’shighly likely that they are just as heartbroken as you are right now.

so, what’s the easiest way to get throughthe difficult post-breakup emotions and sadness? occupy your time and keep yourself busy byfinding someone new. in all likelihood, if your ex has ‘replaced’you with someone new quickly after breaking up with you, then this person is probablyjust a “rebound” to help them get over the breakup blues. and believe it or not, this rebound relationshipcan often be good news for you if you want to get back together with your ex. i know what you’re thinking right now….you’re asking yourself, “how the hell can my ex replacing me with some loser helpme get them back?”

well, the answer is actually fairly simple.first of all, assuming that this new person that your ex is dating is just a rebound relationship— some guy or girl that your ex met in a nightclub and hit it off with — then it’snothing serious. they’re probably not doing candlelit dinners at fancy italian restaurants…they’re just hanging out now and then, relying on the physical side of their relationshipto maintain the bond. while it may be painful to hear that yourex is just seeing this new guy / girl for the sex, that’s actually a good thing foryou. it means that they probably don’t have much in common, and they certainly don’thave the same kind of bond that you and your ex had.

most rebound relationships last 3-5 weeks.while that’s certainly not a hard and fast rule, it’s true for most scenarios. thatmeans that it’s extremely likely your ex’s rebound relationship will be over soon. oncethe rebound ends, your ex is going to have to face the reality of their situation…they’re single, lonely, and they no longer have anyone to keep their mind off of you! while your ex has been delaying this inevitablesurge of heartache and loneliness, you’ve already been dealing with those emotions.your ex’s rebound just delayed this, and now that the rebound is over, these emotionswill surface again. now that your ex’s rebound relationshipis over, it’s time to pounce. because your

ex is depressed and lonely — and becausethey just spent a few weeks dating someone who wasn’t nearly as compatible as you were— you’re probably going to start looking like a very good option. so, with your ex in a fragile state and lookingfor a quick fix to heal their heartache, you can pounce on the situation by re-establishingcommunication with your ex. don’t mention their rebound relationship, and don’t tellthem that you want to get back together. instead, simply start talking with them again— in a casual, friendly, and upbeat way. the goal is just to remind your ex that you’restill around, that you’re still a great person with whom they once shared a deep romanticconnection, and that getting back together

with you is an easy and fast way to make theemotional pain go away. in a sense, then, you’re using your ex’srebound relationship to make yourself look good.. and you’re subtly reminding yourex that love isn’t an easy thing to find. so, if you see your ex with someone new, don’tpanic… celebrate! because, if you play your cards right, their rebound relationship mightjust help you win them back. obviously i’ve simplified things here tofit this all into one video, so if you’ve got questions, please feel free to leave acomment below and i’ll do my best to answer. i’m also releasing new videos all the time,so please subscribe to my channel here on youtube for more advice videos.

and finally, if you’re serious about winningback your ex.. if this is the person that you want to have by your side in 20 or 30or 50 years, then you should consider investing in my ex factor guide program. it’s a step-by-stepsystem that will teach you all the ins and outs, covering every “what if” scenario….and i promise it’s totally affordable, too. grab your copy at my website, www.breakupbrad.com. as always, thanks for watching! see you nexttime.